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Watching and Listening

February 28th, 2008 No comments

Yesterday I had the sheer joy of having a “business meeting” with my co-workers back in Kansas City. At least, that is what I called it when our manager walked by. I was advised to install my webcam so that such a meeting could actually occur, and Adam Spriggs endured about 15 minutes of me struggling to get the video and voice config working so that we could actually communicate. Most of the meeting was us chatting in Gmail while making funny faces at each other, but eventually I got my headet working (which I forgot I even had until Adam said, “Where’s your halo headset?”) and my other co-workers came into view while I showed them the winter wonderland outside my office window.

It has been wonderful this week to just sit back and work. I commented to Julie today that this is very similar to when I was in Seminary: A “vacation” consisted of being able to unwind from school concerns and just have a good week of working. I’ve been really wrapped up in Church and Youth-Pastor-y things these past few weeks, which I love, but it was nice to have a few days with nothing else going on and I can just get some work done. It all came to an end when I heard today that we will be having sports practices twice a week until Festival of Life down in Boston at the end of March. But I have decided to take a couple ping-pong players under my wing for a couple weeks of training – if they’re up for it. Ka-Chow!

I saw Cars recently, I liked it. I also saw “The Ultimate Gift” which I highly recommend! It was a random rental which left me in tears almost the whole way through it. Twice.

I learned a lesson in listening this month. I have been struggling with what it means to “lead” – not just recently, but for quite some time, as I find myself in “leadership” roles, but am so entirely inept that it is embarrassing. For a good laugh, put me in a situation where a decision needs to be made – the aftermath is as painful as the decision itself. But I am realizing that it was in the situations where I have an excellent team of people around me when I thrive, and disaster when I lack such people. Last week we had an event each night in honor of February Vacation, and had Laser Tag slated for Friday. The day came, and brought a snowstorm with it. I had my heart set on going, but found myself at the church, with a dozen students and adult volunteers, an hour after we were supposed to leave for a 2 hour drive, and the snow was getting worse. All the students were ready to go, and all the adults advised against it. I had to recognize the good advice of the adult volunteers, despite my own desire to travel, regardless of the weather. We ended up going out to eat, watching a movie, and having an excellent time.

And if I had a nickel for every time Tim Troxler bailed me out of a bad situation…

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Looking More Like Her Dad Every Day.

February 5th, 2008 No comments

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Maybe North Dakota Really Does Exist.

February 2nd, 2008 No comments

I have long held that the state of North Dakota is really some kind of government conspiracy and doesn’t really exist.  Even after meeting Dwight, the soundman at Southwood, who claimed to have grown up there, I was skeptical.  Dwight may have been heightened my belief that there is no North Dakota.

Until tonight.

I got the chance to catch up with my college roomate, Owen White, who in the last year or so has found a girlfriend, got engaged, got married, has a baby on the way… and moved to North Dakota.  To be a youth pastor.  I don’t think anyone could make that up. It’s so insane that it just has to be true.

I think you’re worth at least $60 Owen.  She got a good deal on you.  Especially if you still bring home those mozzarella sandwiches… those were amazing.

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I’ve Moved.

February 1st, 2008 No comments

That’s right, the rumors are true. I’ve moved.

Joedonahue.org has been dormant these last couple months as I have migrated my blog from one web host to another, and tonight it is finally up and running.

I’ve also stopped going to grad school full-time, quit my job, packed up everything we own, and moved 1500 miles to Maine. Now we are starting a new chapter in our lives where I am the Youth Pastor at the Lisbon Falls Church of the Nazarene and doing contract web development while Julie is a SAHM (Stay-at-home-Mom).  Amelia is still… well, Amelia.  Although, she says “Dad” now and likes to dance with me.

Although this isn’t really news since Julie has posted about a hundred blog entries since we’ve arrived, I feel like I had to say it.

Snow Camp Registration: $45
24pk of Mountain Dew: $7
Getting punched in the face while playing volleyball by one of my teens: priceless.

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